TheOriginalToxxy wrote:Anyways, my problems are this girl who I love deeply, but she lives a hour and half car ride away
90 minute ride isn't too bad, and it will work if you find a way. My cousin is taking 3 buses every fri and mon so he can go get to his girlfriend's house that's over an hour away. If you want something bad enough, you'll find a way. Question is, does she want you bad enough? It takes sacrifice to get involved in a long distance relationship. Sometimes you jump into one and it turns out to not be worth it. Sometimes it is like Jin_22 mentioned. Personally I'm in a long distance relationship, except my girlfriend is a 15 hr flight away (not counting layovers). It's definitely worth it though because we've already been together for over 2 years and I see us getting married in the next 2-3 years. Just keep in mind though, you can't be doing all the sacrificing. If she's not pulling her weight, it's not worth it.
crait wrote:So, I don't know where I'm going to live when I go in.... 6 days?
You're telling me your university doesn't have space for 1 person in their housing? I find that hard to believe. Contact the housing office and ask to speak to someone higher up. If that doesn't work, contact the dean. There's ALWAYS room available. They may have to take someone's double room away, but so be it. You can always look for off campus housing. Financial aid doesn't have to go directly back to the school. You can use the money for an apartment and food. Living off campus is way cheaper, especially if you have roommates.