a girl my heart aches for

hang out with her, asker her out, be as sensitive as she is.

I jsut read your first post. So if i missed something sorry.

But i mean you havent kissed her yet?!. I mean by no means do i get a TON of play. But i would have def kissed and made out all ready.

And it might be bad advice or good i dunno depends on your point of view. But you cant be SOOO nice. Like you dont have to be an donkey but the second she thinks your whipped is when most girls will take advantage of it. You seem like a nice guy but at the same time you gotta have some cockyness to you.

a balence of both.

Well the girls back in my day....lol....here is some old timer advice for ya. Just be confident in whatever you do. Girls really love confidence. It coiuld be something as simple as dancing stupid in public to get her to smile and not letting how stupid you look bother you or it might be that you took on more responsibility at work and are making strides to improve yourself. Now whatever you do, don't forget about her feelings but make sure your exude confidence in everything you do. Even if it doesn't work out with this girl others will pick-up on your scent then and you should be fighting them off....unless your a dog...lol. That's just my input, take it or leave it.

at first we got our pictures taken by each others family members and when i first saw her she looked really beautefull so i told her that and she said thank you scochi in a really nice voice that ive never heard her use and when we got into the car i took the flowers from my back seat and gave them to her and she smiled and said thankyou again.at formal we did the grand march and after that i told her "did you see that none of them even glace at me they were all looking at how pretty you look right now" and she smiled and looked at me, formal went by really good exept there would be a couple times where she wouldnt want to dance or look like she wasnt having fun and she would just leave me and sit down so i would go and sit with her and then the slow dance came and that was probly the closest ive ever been to her i had my hands wraped all the way around her and she smelled really nice (not to be a creaper) and then about a 1/2 hour before the dance was over at about 12:00 am she started to get a really bad stomach ache and we sat down and i went and got her a water and then i drove her home and i said i hoped you had a good time and she said it was one of the best times she has ever had and when i got to her house i slowly did that go 90% of the way and let her go the other 10% thing and she started smilling and said "no scochi sorry" and so i got out and opened her door and walked her to her house and she said again that she had a really good time and we told each other good night. and so then the wendsday after that i saw her in the hall and said hey and she just kept looking at the ground and really quietly said hi and then at lunch time i waited in front of the door like usual and i saw her coming towards me and then she just ignored me and walked right into the lunch room so i waited for about 3 min went in and i couldnt find her so i texted her and she said oh i didnt see you(i wanted to say it takes looking to see and we were supposed to meet here not just walk through and try and see the person) so i decided to go and eat with my friends and after school i called her and asked if she would like to do somthing friday and she said she was busy all weekend and i asked her if she wanted me to stop calling her and she said why would i not want you to call me and i asked so is it okay if i call her every once and awhile to see if she would like to do somthing and she said sure but i still dont like you like you, we're just friends and i asked her what exactly happend at school and she said that she was just really tired and forgot(even if we are just friends that is still kinda rude) and now i doubt there is anything else i can do cause even as friends she sais she is always busy or is just to tired or board.

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"go 90% and let her go the other 10%"
Watching Hitch? lol

Sounds about normal. Maybe she is just embarrassed to say it to ur face. I think she does and all but i cant say for sure. But yea, this is happening to me too. First the girl says she likes me, then she says she doesnt. So i ask her what made her change her mind and she said theres no reason. I think it might be we got in a arguement. idk tho.

Hey i'm back and ive been on a couple of dates. first one i was real nice but was more of a prep girl and smokes weed like every day and night but it was still fun, next girl was nice and quiet but does really nothing but listen to music and watch tv and isnt fasinated at all about computers and doesnt even want to talk about them and doesnt ever answer her home phone for anyone and doesnt have a cell phone, and i've got another that im gina try, one that likes me and i think shes cute but still i cant forget about that first girl. Ever since that last wednsday when she "forgot" about me we stopped saying hey to each other i never made eye contact for about two weeks until yesterday i did look at her she looked really sad not to sad to where it would look like she would cry but i looked straight again and was about to go into my class until she got real close to me and said hey scochi real quietly, it actually made my day and i couldnt stop thinking about her at all that day but i wish i couldve said somthing back to her. I still wish there was a way for us to get together again. next time we are together id make it really nice and try to flirt allitle more and try kiss her all the way this time but only if there is a "next time".

I took a break from chicks i had one with benefits but it got old quick so i just chill with friends most the time i dont have time to be answering calls and txt when im play rockband or ut3 at my friends house lol. Anyway if you guys have known each other for awhile i suggest you tell her EXACTLY how you feel i have done it before and she will either tell ya one thing or say another meanin she might decide to be you or not after that. that way you know how she feels about you and you can move on.... or hopefully not and she gets with ya